Fiction and essays can create empathy for the theoretical stranger.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERThe thing is, it’s my own fault. I just can’t put up with a person that won’t go out of his way for me. And that’s what a man is. Somebody that won’t go out of his way for you. I bet it says that in the dictionary.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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A certain feeling comes from throwing your good life away, and it is one part rapture.
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I know I’m a rare person, a trained scientist who writes fiction, because so few contemporary novelists engage with science.
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Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.
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A dog can’t think that much about what he’s doing, he just does what feels right.
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There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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The bad thing about small-town life is that everybody knows your business…I suppose that is my central obsession. What we owe to society, what we owe to ourselves.
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Stop a minute, right where you are. Relax your shoulders, shake your head and spine like a dog shaking off cold water. Tell that imperious voice in your head to be still.
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Insomnia’s different,” I said. It was hard to explain this to people. “You know the light that comes on when you open the refrigerator door? Just imagine it stays on all the time, even after you close the door. That’s what it’s like in my head. The light stays on.
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Will you explain to me why people encourage delusional behaviour in children, and medicate it in adults?
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I have seen women looking at jewelry ads with a misty eye and one hand resting on the heart, and I only know what they’re feeling because that’s how I read the seed catalogs in January.
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You don’t think you’ll live past it and you don’t really. The person you were is gone. But the half of you that’s still alive wakes up one day and takes over again.
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People read books to escape the uncertainties of life.
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Value is not made of money, but a tender balance of expectation and longing.
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Now I’m starting to think he wasn’t supposed to be my whole life, he was just this doorway to me.
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Alice wonders if other women in the middle of the night have begun to resent their Formica.
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