An ex-girlfriend once got upset when I told her that music is the most important thing in my life. It’s more important than anyone else could ever be.
BEN GIBBARD
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“An ex-girlfriend once got upset when I told her that music is the most important thing in my life. It’s more important than anyone else could ever be.”
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