It was odd how one found oneself making trivial conversation on important occasions. Perhaps it was because one could not say what was really in one’s mind.
BARBARA PYMIt was odd how one found oneself making trivial conversation on important occasions. Perhaps it was because one could not say what was really in one’s mind.
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There are some things too dreadful to be revealed, and it is even more dreadful how, in spite of our better instincts,we long to know about them.
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How absurd and delicious it is to be in love with somebody younger than yourself. Everybody should try it.
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Perhaps I need some shattering experience to awaken and inspire me, or at least to give me some emotion to recollect in tranquility. But how to get it? Sit here and wait for it or go out and seek it? . . . I expect it will be sit and wait.
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I realised that one might love him secretly with no hope of encouragement, which can be very enjoyable for the young or inexperienced.
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I pulled myself up and told myself to stop these ridiculous thoughts, wondering why it is that we can never stop trying to analyse the motives of people who have no personal interest in us, in the vain hope of finding that perhaps they may have just a little after all.
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She had always been an unashamed reader of novels.
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Novel writing is a kind of private pleasure, even if nothing comes of it in worldly terms.
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There are various ways of mending a broken heart, but perhaps going to a learned conference is one of the more unusual.
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Dulcie always found a public library a little upsetting, for one saw so many odd people there.
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Of course it’s all right for librarians to smell of drink.
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There are no sick people in North Oxford. They are either dead or alive. It’s sometimes difficult to tell the difference, that’s all.
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Once outside the magic circle the writers became their lonely selves, pondering on poems, observing their fellow men ruthlessly, putting people they knew into novels; no wonder they were without friends.
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The small things of life were often so much bigger than the great things . . . the trivial pleasure like cooking, one’s home, little poems especially sad ones, solitary walks, funny things seen and overheard.
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Life is cruel and we do terrible things to each other.
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What a good thing there is no marriage or giving in marriage in the after-life; it will certainly help to smooth things out.
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