Barbara Pym on helping
Barbara Pym24 quotes“What a good thing there is no marriage or giving in marriage in the after-life; it will certainly help to smooth things out.”
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The small things of life were often so much bigger than the great things . . . the trivial pleasure like cooking, one’s home, little poems especially sad ones, solitary walks, funny things seen and overheard.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym It was odd how one found oneself making trivial conversation on important occasions. Perhaps it was because one could not say what was really in one’s mind.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym I was so astonished that I could think of nothing to say, but wondered irrelevantly if I was to be caught with a teapot in my hand on every dramatic occasion.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym There are no sick people in North Oxford. They are either dead or alive. It’s sometimes difficult to tell the difference, that’s all.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym I stretched out my hand towards the little bookshelf where I kept cookery and devotional books, the most comfortable bedside reading.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym My thoughts went round and round and it occurred to me that if I ever wrote a novel it would be of the ‘stream of consciousness’ type and deal with an hour in the life of a woman at the sink.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym Dulcie always found a public library a little upsetting, for one saw so many odd people there.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym How absurd and delicious it is to be in love with somebody younger than yourself. Everybody should try it.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym She had always been an unashamed reader of novels.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym Once outside the magic circle the writers became their lonely selves, pondering on poems, observing their fellow men ruthlessly, putting people they knew into novels; no wonder they were without friends.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym The burden of keeping three people in toilet paper seemed to me rather a heavy one.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym There are some things too dreadful to be revealed, and it is even more dreadful how, in spite of our better instincts,we long to know about them.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym You know Mildred would never do anything wrong or foolish. I reflected a little sadly that this was only too true and hoped I did not appear too much that kind of person to others. Virtue is an excellent thing and we should all strive after it, but it can sometimes be a little depressing.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym Of course it’s all right for librarians to smell of drink.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym I imagine the proverb about too many cooks spoiling the broth can be applied to writing as well as anything else. The poetical or literary broth is better cooked by one person.
Barbara PymBarbara Pym Oh, this coming back to an empty house,’ Rupert thought, when he had seen her safely up to her door. People – though perhaps it was only women – seemed to make so much of it. As if life itself were not as empty as the house one was coming back to.
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Someone rejected you does not mean you are not worthy. Maybe they can’t afford to be with you.
Jacklyn TysonJacklyn Tyson I will love you from afar it’s better this way because close up it hurts too much.
Melissa AndersonMelissa Anderson Maybe if you hold me tight, our love won’t be as shallow.
Mira R. AridiMira R. Aridi Sometimes a person is in peace & in the piece at the same time.
Jessica CollinsJessica Collins Between day and night there was a moment of silence.
Frode GaslandFrode Gasland But doesn’t it hurt to feel so much and pretend not to?
Brad NeatonBrad Neaton Admire your sweet way of glowing; your passionate way of flowing.
Ana SoulfulAna Soulful Darling, you are a warrior, for even though each day feels like a battle, you keep fighting and live on.
Sarah ShawkatSarah Shawkat
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More on helping
Let them at all times concern themselves with doing a kindly thing for one of their fellows, offering to someone love, consideration, thoughtful help.
Abdu'l-BahaAbdu'l-Baha Help along one another’s projects and plans.
Abdu'l-BahaAbdu'l-Baha I needed, I needed…you.” “Don’t tell me you need me.” “But I can’t help it. I do
Abbi GlinesAbbi Glines The heart wants who the heart wants. We can’t help that.
Abbi GlinesAbbi Glines I am always struggling in finding time to daily grow in my faith. If you are not in the Word or focusing on Christ, or into prayer, you can’t help but slip at times.
Aaron RodgersAaron Rodgers One-time revenue spikes that aren’t repeatable won’t help you achieve consistent year-after-year growth.
Aaron RossAaron Ross I would love to get great performances from actors as a director, because that’s what I’m always looking for, a director that’s going to help me go places I’ve never been before.
Aaron EckhartAaron Eckhart The art of being helpful is behaving as if everything we do matters – because we never know which things might.
Gloria SteinemGloria Steinem
