To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
BARBARA DEMINGNonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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