Vengeance is not the point: change is.
BARBARA DEMINGThe free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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We cannot live without our lives
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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