A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
BARBARA DEMINGA great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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We cannot live without our lives
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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