Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
BARBARA DEMINGWhat is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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