Competition between women is good only if it does not prevail; that is to say if it coexists with affinity, affection, with a real sense of being mutually indispensable, with sudden peaks of solidarity in spite of envy, jealousy and the whole inevitable cohort of bad feelings.
ELENA FERRANTEMy work stops at publication. If the books don’t contain in themselves their reasons for being – questions and answers – it means I was wrong to have them published.
More Elena Ferrante Quotes
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I think our sexuality is all yet to be recounted and that the rich male literary tradition constitutes a huge obstacle.
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I believe that books, once they are written, have no need of their authors.
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We lie in order to tolerate our existence and, most of all, we lie to ourselves.
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I didn’t choose anonymity.Instead, I chose absence.
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I no longer protect myself from the world I grew up in. Rather, today I try to protect the feelings I have for that world, the emotional space where my desire to write first took hold, and still grows.
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It’s the people who love us or hate us – or both – who hold together the thousands of fragments we are made of.
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Those who write need that “willing suspension of disbelief “, as Coleridge called it.
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A calendar, you have to calculate how much time has passed between you and the facts, the emotions to be narrated.
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As a girl – twelve, thirteen years old – I was absolutely certain that a good book had to have a man as its hero, and that depressed me.
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Women, in all fields – whether mothers or not – still encounter an extraordinary number of obstacles. They have to hold too many things together and often sacrifice their aspirations in the name of affections.
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Anonymity lets me concentrate exclusively on writing.
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I had to discover very quickly that class origins cannot be erased, regardless of whether we climb up or down the sociocultural ladder.
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Is it possible that even happy moments of pleasure never stand up to a rigorous examination? Possible.
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The rules say that to tell a story you need first of all a measuring stick.
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Writing for me is a dragnet that carries everything away with it: expressions and figures of speech, postures, feelings, thoughts, troubles. In short, the lives of others.
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