What we reliably find is that people’s perseverance scores are actually higher than their passion scores, and I think it really does get to the fact that working hard is hard, but maybe finding your passion is even more difficult.
ANGELA DUCKWORTHSubstituting nuance for novelty is what experts do, and that is why they are never bored.
More Angela Duckworth Quotes
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Why do some people try, try again, and why do some people not? That’s what I’m after.
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Very few people can keep going their whole life doing something and feel like it’s merely personally fascinating.
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Psychologists call this the maturity principle. My own life experience fits this principle to a T.
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Maybe. But the reality is that our early interests are fragile, vaguely defined, and in need of energetic, years-long cultivation and refinement.
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Some people prefer a world where we’re all equally talented in everything. Whether you prefer that world or not, I don’t think that world exists.
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Every day, parents and teachers ask me, ‘How do I build grit in kids? What do I do to teach kids a solid work ethic? How do I keep them motivated for the long run?’ The honest answer is, I don’t know.
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If you’re never able to tolerate a little bit of pain and discomfort, you’ll never get better.
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Being gritty doesn’t mean not showing pain or pretending everything is O.K. In fact, when you look at healthy and successful and giving people, they are extraordinarily meta-cognitive. They’re able to say things like, ‘Dude, I totally lost my temper this morning.’ That ability to reflect on yourself is signature to grit.
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Substituting nuance for novelty is what experts do, and that is why they are never bored.
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People who are really gritty – they’re still interested.
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To me, the most shocking thing about grit is how little we know, how little science knows, about building it.
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I will say that if my wildest dreams come true, I will, like, wake up one day, and I will be Carol Dweck, right? Because she is like everything I want to be.
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I now have Grit Scale scores from thousands of American adults. My data provide a snapshot of grit across adulthood.
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My dad was not super-intentional in his parenting. He was very self-absorbed. I won’t say mean or selfish per se, but very self-absorbed. I think he was just thinking out loud.
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The focus on just thinking about standardized test scores as being synonymous with achievement for teenagers is ridiculous, right?
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