A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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