Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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