Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPeople who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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