What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
ALAIN DE BOTTONPeople who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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