I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPeople who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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