She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
AIMEE BENDERHe was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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