It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
AIMEE BENDERIf everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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