It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
AIMEE BENDERand I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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