Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
AIMEE BENDERSometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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I want to be violated by insight.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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