Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
ADAM PHILLIPSWe are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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People change, but there really are limits.
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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