Neither woman nor man lives by work, or love, alone … The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.
BETTY FRIEDAN…women who ‘adjust’ as housewives, who grow up wanting to be ‘just a housewife,’ are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps…they ate suffering a slow death of mind and spirit.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: ‘I want something more than my husband and my children and my home.’
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When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.
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Regardless of your age, you will always have adventures, unexpected joys and unexpected sorrows.
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I have discovered that there is a crucial difference between society’s image of old people and ‘us’ as we know and feel ourselves to be.
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It is frightening when a woman finally realizes that there is no answer to the question ‘who am I’ except the voice inside herself.
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Aging is not “lost youth” but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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We need a new political movement of women and men toward a new society.
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By now, abortion should be obsolete. And I – and probably a lot of other feminists – wish it were obsolete, because abortion, in itself, is not a value – it is simply the right to chose, which is an essential value.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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If I were a man, I would strenuously object to the assumption that women have any moral or spiritual superiority as a class.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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Some people think I’m saying, ‘Women of the world unite — you have nothing to lose but your men. It’s not true. You have nothing to lose but your vacuum cleaners.
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A girl should not expect special privileges because of her sex, but neither should she “adjust” to prejudice and discrimination.
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Today the problem that has no name is how to juggle work, love, home and children.
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If women’s role in life is limited solely to housewife/mother, it clearly ends when she can no longer bear more children and the children she has borne leave home.
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