Getting into a new relationship is like pouring Miracle-Gro on your character defects.
ANNE LAMOTTI spent my whole life helping my mother carry around her psychic trunks like a bitter bellhop. So a great load was lifted when she died, and my life was much easier.
More Anne Lamott Quotes
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I’m not going to change the way people think about me, but I can say you know what? I’m not going to carry that in my backpack.
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I am going to notice the lights of the earth, the sun and the moon and the stars, the lights of our candles as we march, the lights with which spring teases us, the light that is already present.
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To love yourself as you are is a miracle, and to seek yourself is to have found yourself for now. And now is all we have, and love is who we are.
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Laughter is carbonated holiness.
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You can get the monkey off your back, but the circus never leaves town.
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You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories.
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Human lives are hard, even those of health and privilege, and don’t make much sense. This is the message of the Book of Job: Any snappy explanation of suffering you come up with will be horseshit.
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Butterflies and birds are like one perfect teaspoon of creation.
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Expectations are resentments under construction.
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Gratitude, not understanding, is the secret to joy and equanimity.
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Nothing heals us like letting people know our scariest parts: When people listen to you cry and lament, and look at you with love, it’s like they are holding the baby of you.
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What fills us is real, sweet, dopey, funny life.
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Radical self-care is quantum, and radiates out into the atmosphere, like a little fresh air. It is a huge gift to the world. When people respond by saying, “Well, isn’t she full of herself,” smile obliquely, like Mona Lisa, and make both of you a nice cup of tea.
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Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you don’t give up.
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No is a complete sentence.
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