When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
PEMA CHODRONFeeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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