Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
PEMA CHODRONFeeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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