Self-conquest is really self-surrender. Yet before we can surrender ourselves we must become ourselves. For no one can give up what he does not possess.
THOMAS MERTONFor each one of us, there is only one thing necessary: to fulfill our own destiny, according to God’s will, to be what God wants us to be.
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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Violence is not completely fatal until it ceases to disturb us.
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May God prevent us from becoming “right-thinking men”-that is to say men who agree perfectly with their own police.
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We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God.
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For although God is right with us and in us and out of us and all through us, we have to go on journeys to find him.
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Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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The greatest need of our time is to clean out the enormous mass of mental and emotional rubbish that clutters our minds.
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People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
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Our idea of God tells us more about ourselves than about Him.
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The spiritual life is first of all a life. It is not merely something to be known and studied, it is to be lived.
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The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves.
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The more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer, because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you, in proportion to your fear of being hurt. The one who does most to avoid suffering is, in the end, the one who suffers most.
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You do not need to know precisely what is happening, or exactly where it is all going. What you need is to recognize the possibilities and challenges offered by the present moment, and to embrace them with courage, faith and hope.
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Do not be too quick to condemn the man who no longer believes in God: for it is perhaps your own coldness and avarice and mediocrity and materialism and selfishness that have chilled his faith.
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But if you want to identify me, ask me not where I live, or what I like to eat, or how I comb my hair, but ask me what I think I am living for.
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How can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
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