Love is not a matter of getting what you want. Quite the contrary. The insistence on always having what you want, on always being satisfied, on always being fulfilled, makes love impossible.
THOMAS MERTONNot all of us are called to be hermits, but all of us need enough silence and solitude in our lives to enable the deeper voice of our own self to be heard at least occasionally.
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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Our idea of God tells us more about ourselves than about Him.
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May God prevent us from becoming “right-thinking men”-that is to say men who agree perfectly with their own police.
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If you yourself are at peace, then there is at least some peace in the world.
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The spiritual life is first of all a life. It is not merely something to be known and studied, it is to be lived.
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Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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It is my belief, that we should not be too sure of having found Christ in ourselves until we have found him also in that part of humanity that is most remote from our own.
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In a world of noise, confusion and conflict it is necessary that there be places of silence, inner discipline and peace. In such places love can blossom.
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A happiness that is sought for ourselves alone can never be found: for a happiness that is diminished by being shared is not big enough to make us happy.
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What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we cannot cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves?
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You do not need to know precisely what is happening, or exactly where it is all going. What you need is to recognize the possibilities and challenges offered by the present moment, and to embrace them with courage, faith and hope.
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We cannot achieve greatness unless we lose all interest in being great.
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Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.
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Let us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
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Actions are the doors and windows of being. Unless we act, we have no way of knowing what we are.
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People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
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