Love is not a matter of getting what you want. Quite the contrary. The insistence on always having what you want, on always being satisfied, on always being fulfilled, makes love impossible.
THOMAS MERTONPrayer is not so much a way to find God as a way of resting in him who loves us, who is near to us.
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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A happiness that is sought for ourselves alone can never be found: for a happiness that is diminished by being shared is not big enough to make us happy.
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In Silence God ceases to be an object and becomes an experience.
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The greatest need of our time is to clean out the enormous mass of mental and emotional rubbish that clutters our minds.
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What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we cannot cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves?
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Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.
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The man who sweats under his mask, whose role makes him itch with discomfort, who hates the division in himself, is already beginning to be free.
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Violence is not completely fatal until it ceases to disturb us.
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The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
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May God prevent us from becoming “right-thinking men”-that is to say men who agree perfectly with their own police.
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Our real journey in life is interior; It is a matter of growth, deepening, and of an ever greater surrender to the creative action of love and grace in our hearts. Never was it more necessary to respond to that action.
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Others can give you a name or a number, but they can never tell you who you really are. That is something you yourself can only discover from within.
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People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
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Perhaps I am stronger than I think.
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For each one of us, there is only one thing necessary: to fulfill our own destiny, according to God’s will, to be what God wants us to be.
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Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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