Feeling peaceful, happy and content is not about avoiding challenges in our life, but about how we navigate through these challenges to reach the type of life we want to live.
GAUR GOPAL DASFeeling peaceful, happy and content is not about avoiding challenges in our life, but about how we navigate through these challenges to reach the type of life we want to live.
GAUR GOPAL DASFamiliarity breeds contempt, I replied. When we are overly familiar with people, we forget how important they are to us and the correct way to behave with them.
GAUR GOPAL DASAs a monk, I have to be cautious of overindulgence; it is essential to stay regulated in our habits.
GAUR GOPAL DASIt is strange that sword and words have the same letters. Even more strange is that they have the same effect if not handled properly.
GAUR GOPAL DASThis happens with all relationships, not just in marriages. If we are not proactive in our relationships, they start to seem dry and become cumbersome. We have to have respect for the other person, which is reflected in how sensitively we treat them.
GAUR GOPAL DASThink: Is this in my control? If yes, you can do something about it. If no, then you cannot do anything about it. Therefore, in both circumstances, why worry?
GAUR GOPAL DASWatch your thoughts, they turn into words. Watch your words, they turn into actions. Watch your actions, they turn into habits. Watch your habits, they turn into character. Watch your character, it turns into your destiny. It all begins with a thought.
GAUR GOPAL DASAt work we tend to compare and compete with others, instead of comparing and competing with ourselves.
GAUR GOPAL DASWe need to understand the hierarchy of connections. Ultimately, we must connect to something above ourselves such as God. This can give us the power to spread happiness and joy around the world.
GAUR GOPAL DASAnyone can find the dirt in someone. Be the one that finds the gold.
GAUR GOPAL DASA gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
GAUR GOPAL DASMeditation is like a plane: It first takes you high, then far away and then further away imperceptibly.
GAUR GOPAL DASOur association is powerful: it can uplift us or bring us down.
GAUR GOPAL DASWe can increase our scope of selflessness beyond our family by serving our community, city or even nation.
GAUR GOPAL DASWhen upon life’s billows you are tempest-tossed, When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost, Count your many blessings, name them one by one, And it will surprise you what the Lord has done.
GAUR GOPAL DASPeople who meditate develop a habit of practicing sincere gratitude which helps them in all their relationships. It is a relationship-strengthening emotion because it requires us to see how we’ve been supported and affirmed by other people.
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