To accept someone when everything is going right is easy. But when things are falling apart around you and you stick together, that’s the test of a relationship. Love is when we have every reason to break up but we do not.
GAUR GOPAL DASWatch your thoughts, they turn into words. Watch your words, they turn into actions. Watch your actions, they turn into habits. Watch your habits, they turn into character. Watch your character, it turns into your destiny. It all begins with a thought.
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Familiarity breeds contempt, I replied. When we are overly familiar with people, we forget how important they are to us and the correct way to behave with them.
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People who meditate develop a habit of practicing sincere gratitude which helps them in all their relationships. It is a relationship-strengthening emotion because it requires us to see how we’ve been supported and affirmed by other people.
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We must find positivity in the bleakest situations and live by the principle of gratitude
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Our association is powerful: it can uplift us or bring us down.
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Fight the strong urge to judge someone based on an initial interaction with them. Everyone has a fascinating story that we know nothing about.
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If someone chooses what they love to do, there is no stress in their life. As they say, If you do what you love, you will never have to work a day in your life.
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Watch your thoughts, they turn into words. Watch your words, they turn into actions. Watch your actions, they turn into habits. Watch your habits, they turn into character. Watch your character, it turns into your destiny. It all begins with a thought.
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The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.
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Meditation is like a plane: It first takes you high, then far away and then further away imperceptibly.
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Forgiveness is a complex concept. We must understand it thoroughly to be able to internalize it.
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What great men do, common men follow.
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You need an attitude of service. You’re not just serving yourself. You help others to grow up and you grow with them.
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We can increase our scope of selflessness beyond our family by serving our community, city or even nation.
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The sands of time slow for no man. Things change for better and for worse, but what we choose to perceive is up to us.
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This happens with all relationships, not just in marriages. If we are not proactive in our relationships, they start to seem dry and become cumbersome. We have to have respect for the other person, which is reflected in how sensitively we treat them.
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Spirituality helps develop good character. It is character that shines bright when words fail to do so.
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Hot heads do not give good feedback – choose a better time.
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Physical violence is inflicted with weapons, but emotional violence is inflicted with words; words can leave invisible scars that can take years, or even lifetimes, to heal.
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Think: Is this in my control? If yes, you can do something about it. If no, then you cannot do anything about it. Therefore, in both circumstances, why worry?
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Always seeing the best in people and choosing to avoid their faults.
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Feeling peaceful, happy and content is not about avoiding challenges in our life, but about how we navigate through these challenges to reach the type of life we want to live.
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The first step in selflessness is to practise it with our family.
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Our relationships are stronger when they contain a spiritual component. There are three different ways to become good friends with someone.
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Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
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To find your purpose in life, you must go on a journey of self-discovery.
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A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
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