Bitterness is the outcome of a wrong mental movement – the attempt to force external events to conform to internal fantasy. The cure is to see fantasy as fantasy, which will reveal it as neither necessary nor rewarding.
VERNON HOWARDWe are slaves to whatever we don’t understand.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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Beauty is only skin deep, but it’s a valuable asset if you’re poor or haven’t any sense.
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Society is like a crowd in carnival costumes with everyone fearful that others will see through his disguise.
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All we have to do is to receive what we are given…We are given the naturalness to love someone, to be calm in crisis, to ignore self-defeating suggestions, to be pleasant, forgiving, tender, helpful, unworried, brave, energetic.
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A truly strong person does not need the approval of others any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep.
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We are slaves to whatever we don’t understand.
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A clear understanding of negative emotions dismisses them.
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The leap is made by dropping vanity over knowledge and by a willingness to become nothing in order to become everything.
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Happiness is not the acquisition of anything; it’s the understanding of something.
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Inner liberty can be judged by how often a person feels offended, for you can no more insult a mature man than you can paint the air.
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When told that man lives in delusion everyone thinks of himself as the exception; hence his delusion.
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What you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind.
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Freedom begins as we become conscious of it.
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Suppose you stand on a high place to enjoy the beauty of the sparkling sea below. You need do nothing to create that beauty; you need only BE IN THE SAME PLACE WHERE IT IS, and let nature do the rest. So it is with the inner life.
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Anger or bitterness toward those who have hurt you will block your path to higher ground. You can have anger toward people or you can have freedom from people, but you can’t have both.
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Is the beam from a lighthouse affected by howling wind and rain? It remains perfectly steadfast and unaffected by the storm. Your true self is like that. Nothing can ever harm you once you are consciously aware that it is so.
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