Do not mistake desire for love. Desire leaves home in a frantic search for one gratification after another. Love is at home with itself.
VERNON HOWARDWe are slaves to whatever we don’t understand.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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Don’t look for someone in whom to believe. Believe in yourself. The only authentic authority is your own original nature.
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Resistance to the disturbance is the disturbance.
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Ignorant people remain ignorant because they have a secret agreement to call one another intelligent.
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Examine every action and reaction. Do you act naturally or do you act because you feel compelled? If you feel compelled, stop. Compulsion is slavery. Example: Refuse to go along with the crowd.
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One false idea is that anyone can hurt you. Events can ruin your reputation, take your money, mistreat you, revenge itself upon you, deceive, betray, abandon you, but cannot hurt you.
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Truth is not a matter of personal viewpoint.
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Aloneness is a wise teacher. Kierkegaard remarked that one sign of spiritual maturity was the ability to be comfortable when alone.
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Self-knowledge is the great power by which we comprehend and control our lives
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We must become acquainted with our emotional household: we must see our feelings as they actually are, not as we assume they are. This breaks their hypnotic and damaging hold on us.
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An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
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Bitterness is the outcome of a wrong mental movement – the attempt to force external events to conform to internal fantasy. The cure is to see fantasy as fantasy, which will reveal it as neither necessary nor rewarding.
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Inner liberty can be judged by how often a person feels offended, for you can no more insult a mature man than you can paint the air.
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A clear understanding of negative emotions dismisses them.
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Freedom begins as we become conscious of it.
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A cheery relaxation is man’s natural state, just as nature itself is relaxed. A waterfall is concerned only with being itself, not with doing something it considers waterfall-like.
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