All we have to do is to receive what we are given…We are given the naturalness to love someone, to be calm in crisis, to ignore self-defeating suggestions, to be pleasant, forgiving, tender, helpful, unworried, brave, energetic.
VERNON HOWARDWhat you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
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The search for truth is really a lot of good fun.
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Inner guidance is heard like soft music in the night by those who have learned to listen.
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Whenever encountering a troublesome person, do not identify him as being cruel or stupid or rude or anything else like that. Instead, see him as a frightened person.
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Don’t look for someone in whom to believe. Believe in yourself. The only authentic authority is your own original nature.
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If you call one thing good, you must call its opposite bad. If you think it wonderful to make a big profit in your business, you will also think it terrible if you incur a large loss. The idea is to live above the opposites.
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Change is never a loss – it is change only.
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Inner liberty can be judged by how often a person feels offended, for you can no more insult a mature man than you can paint the air.
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Aloneness is a wise teacher. Kierkegaard remarked that one sign of spiritual maturity was the ability to be comfortable when alone.
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A clear understanding of negative emotions dismisses them.
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A false path must be tensely and angrily defended by those it has deceived.
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The most marvelous experience of life is to transform life according to reality, not imagination.
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All forms of self-defeating behavior are unseen and unconscious, which is why their existence is denied.
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You have your emergency plan ready. And in simple language what that emergency plan is, what you put into operation, is called worry. If you can worry you are occupied, and what an incredible human situation it is!
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The leap is made by dropping vanity over knowledge and by a willingness to become nothing in order to become everything.
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