An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
VERNON HOWARDInner liberty can be judged by how often a person feels offended, for you can no more insult a mature man than you can paint the air.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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There is no way reality can be prevented from flowing the way it flows. It is our vain attempts to force it to flow in the service of our imaginary needs which sets us in painful conflict with our- selves and nature.
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You must never fear anything at all.
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Find yourself for courage and confidence are as easy as breathing to the person who really knows who he is.
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All heartache is caused by wrong viewpoints.
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Happiness is not the acquisition of anything; it’s the understanding of something.
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Inner liberty can be judged by how often a person feels offended, for you can no more insult a mature man than you can paint the air.
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Change is never a loss – it is change only.
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The leap is made by dropping vanity over knowledge and by a willingness to become nothing in order to become everything.
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Anger or bitterness toward those who have hurt you will block your path to higher ground. You can have anger toward people or you can have freedom from people, but you can’t have both.
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A cheery relaxation is man’s natural state, just as nature itself is relaxed. A waterfall is concerned only with being itself, not with doing something it considers waterfall-like.
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A person obsessed with the need to be happy will never be so. The obsession is the obstruction.
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To change what you get you must change who you are.
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Your central self is totally untouched by grief, confusion, desperation.
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You have it made when you don’t care whether you have it made or not.
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A perfect method for awakening is to examine the results of our daily actions. If they are harmful, we know we need more consciousness.
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