An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
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Vernon Howard24 quotes“An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.”
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There exists a special self which takes every event as if it were the very thing you wanted to happen. That self is the Supermind, which is never upset by anything. Your goal is to nourish it into greater strength. Then, every step is sunlit.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard You know what is right. Deep down, you know. The battle between your true wisdom and the counterfeit wisdom of society is what causes frustration. Refuse to compromise with what you know is right-with what is right for you.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard The genuinely spiritual person is one who has lost all desire to be anyone but exactly who he is, without labels and without apologies. He is what he is and that’s all there’s is to it. Such a man is undivided, uncomplicated and contented.
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Vernon HowardVernon Howard Interpretation blocks reception while masquerading as reception. Rightness does not need interpretation; it requires simple acceptance and nothing else.
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Vernon HowardVernon Howard Just as surely as distress must follow self-deceit, healing must follow self-honesty.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard Aloneness is a wise teacher. Kierkegaard remarked that one sign of spiritual maturity was the ability to be comfortable when alone.
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Vernon HowardVernon Howard Society is like a crowd in carnival costumes with everyone fearful that others will see through his disguise.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard Don’t look for someone in whom to believe. Believe in yourself. The only authentic authority is your own original nature.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard The world consists of imaginary people, claiming imaginary virtues and suffering from imaginary happiness.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard All we have to do is to receive what we are given…We are given the naturalness to love someone, to be calm in crisis, to ignore self-defeating suggestions, to be pleasant, forgiving, tender, helpful, unworried, brave, energetic.
Vernon HowardVernon Howard We clearly realize that freedom’s inner kingdom cannot be touched by exterior attacks.
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