Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
TUTU DESMONDA person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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