Love is not a matter of getting what you want. Quite the contrary. The insistence on always having what you want, on always being satisfied, on always being fulfilled, makes love impossible.
THOMAS MERTONIn a world of noise, confusion and conflict it is necessary that there be places of silence, inner discipline and peace. In such places love can blossom.
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Our real journey in life is interior; It is a matter of growth, deepening, and of an ever greater surrender to the creative action of love and grace in our hearts. Never was it more necessary to respond to that action.
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You are made in the image of what you desire.
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The more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer, because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you, in proportion to your fear of being hurt. The one who does most to avoid suffering is, in the end, the one who suffers most.
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Our real journey in life is interior.
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What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we cannot cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves?
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The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
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The purpose of our lives is to find the purpose of our lives.
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Actions are the doors and windows of being. Unless we act, we have no way of knowing what we are.
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No one is so wrong as the man who knows all the answers.
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Ours is a time of anxiety because we have willed it to be so. Our anxiety is not imposed on us by force from outside. We impose it on our world and upon one another from within ourselves.
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The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves.
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We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being. As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have – for their usefulness.
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Be good, keep your feet dry, your eyes open, your heart at peace and your soul in the joy of Christ.
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Do not look for rest in any pleasure, because you were not created for pleasure: you were created for joy. And if you do not know the difference between pleasure and joy you have not yet begun to live.
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I see no contradiction between Buddhism and Christianity. I intend to become as good a Buddhist as I can.
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