The offhand decision of some commonplace mind high in office at a critical moment influences the course of events for a hundred years.
THOMAS HARDYTheir position was perhaps the happiest of all positions in the social scale, being above the line at which neediness ends, and below the line at which the convenances begin to cramp natural feeling, and the stress of threadbare modishness makes too little of enough.
More Thomas Hardy Quotes
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Why is it that a woman can see from a distance what a man cannot see close?
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The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar which the ultimate fulfillment of that hope never entirely removes.
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Everybody is so talented nowadays that the only people I care to honor as deserving real distinction are those who remain in obscurity.
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Love is a possible strength in an actual weakness.
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It appears that ordinary men take wives because possession is not possible without marriage, and that ordinary women accept husbands because marriage is not possible without possession.
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The value of old age depends upon the person who reaches it. To some men of early performance it is useless. To others, who are late to develop, it just enables them to finish the job.
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Our impulses are too strong for our judgement sometimes.
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Beauty lay not in the thing, but in what the thing symbolized.
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The resolution to avoid an evil is seldom framed till the evil is so far advanced as to make avoidance impossible.
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Remember that the best and greatest among mankind are those who do themselves no worldly good. Every successful man is more or less a selfish man. The devoted fail.
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That man’s silence is wonderful to listen to.
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Some women’s love of being loved is insatiable; and so, often, is their love of loving; and in the last case they may find that they can’t give it continuously to the chamber-officer appointed by the bishop’s license to receive it.
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Silence has sometimes a remarkable power of showing itself as the disembodied soul of feeling wandering without its carcase, and it is then more impressive than speech.
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People go on marrying because they can’t resist natural forces, although many of them may know perfectly well that they are possibly buying a month’s pleasure with a life’s discomfort.
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O, you have torn my life all to pieces… made me be what I prayed you in pity not to make me be again!
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If a path to the better there be, it begins with a full look at the worst.
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Happiness is but a mere episode in the general drama of pain.
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It was then that the ecstasy and the dream began, in which emotion was the matter of the universe, and matter but an adventitious intrusion likely to hinder you from spinning where you wanted to spin.
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You have never loved me as I love you–never–never! Yours is not a passionate heart–your heart does not burn in a flame! You are, upon the whole, a sort of fay, or sprite– not a woman!
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Though a good deal is too strange to be believed, nothing is too strange to have happened.
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Is a woman a thinking unit at all, or a fraction always wanting its integer?
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The first cause worked automatically like a somnambulist, and not reflectively like a sage.
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To be loved to madness–such was her great desire. Love was to her the one cordial which could drive away the eating loneliness of her days. And she seemed to long for the abstraction called passionate love more than for any particular lover.
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It is difficult for a woman to define her feelings in language which is chiefly made by men to express theirs.
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Many have learned that the magnitude of lives is not as to their external displacements, but as to their subjective experiences. The impressionable peasant leads a larger, fuller, more dramatic life than the pachydermatous king.
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A strong woman who recklessly throws away her strength, she is worse than a weak woman who has never had any strength to throw away.
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