And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
SYDNEY J. HARRISIt’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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Any philosophy that can be put in a nutshell belongs there.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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You may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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A ‘penchant for telling the truth’ can cripple a candidates chances faster than being caught in flagrante delicto with the governor’s wife.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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