Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
SYDNEY J. HARRISYou may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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