Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNo one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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Any philosophy that can be put in a nutshell belongs there.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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