And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThe main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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