We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
SYDNEY J. HARRISWe can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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This is a lesson mankind has not yet learned. We identify, and stratify, and treat persons largely on the basis of their accidental (physical) characteristics, which have no deeper meaning.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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Agnosticism is a perfectly respectable and tenable philosophical position; it is not dogmatic and makes no pronouncements about the ultimate truths of the universe. It remains open to evidence and persuasion; lacking faith, it nevertheless does not deride faith.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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