Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
SYDNEY J. HARRISLove makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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Agnosticism is a perfectly respectable and tenable philosophical position; it is not dogmatic and makes no pronouncements about the ultimate truths of the universe. It remains open to evidence and persuasion; lacking faith, it nevertheless does not deride faith.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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It’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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