You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
SHELEANA AIYANAPeople who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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