Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
ROLLO MAYEvery human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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All our feelings, like the artist’s paints and brush, are ways of communicating and sharing something meaningful from us to the world.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Religion is whatever the individual takes to be his ultimate concern. One’s religious attitude is to be found at that point where he has a conviction that there are values in human existence worth living and dying for.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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Many people feel they are powerless to do anything effective with their lives. It takes courage to break out of the settled mold, but most find conformity more comfortable. This is why the opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.
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Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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