It’s remarkable how a stereotype functions as an actual trap. How many angry black women have been caught in the circular logic of that phrase? When you aren’t being listened to, why wouldn’t you get louder? If you’re written off as angry or emotional, doesn’t that just cause more of the same?
MICHELLE OBAMAFailure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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Marriage, he told me early on, struck him as an unnecessary and overhyped convention.
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Empower yourselves with a good education, then get out there and use that education to build a country worthy of your boundless promise.
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In my blinding drive to excel, in my need to do things perfectly, I’d missed the signs and taken the wrong road.
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[Y]ou may live in the world as it is, but you can still work to create the world as it should be.
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just do what works for you, because there will always be someone who thinks differently.
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But as I’ve said, failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result. And for me, it felt like that’s exactly what she was planting—a suggestion of failure long before I’d even tried to succeed.
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We live by the paradigms we know.
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He’s always asking: ‘Is that new? I haven’t seen that before.’ It’s like, Why don’t you mind your own business? Solve world hunger. Get out of my closet.
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I have had to learn that my voice has value. And if I don’t use it, what’s the point of being in the room?
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
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Kids will invest more, when they feel they’re being invested in.
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No one, I realized, was going to look out for me unless I pushed for it.
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I just wanted to achieve. Or maybe I didn’t want to be dismissed as incapable of achievement.
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Now I think it’s one of the most useless questions an adult can ask a child – What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.
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The punches hurt, even if I understood that they had little to do with who I really was as a person.
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