For me, marriage was more like a full-on merger, a reconfiguring of two lives into one, with the well-being of a family taking precedence over any one agenda or goal.
MICHELLE OBAMAFor me, marriage was more like a full-on merger, a reconfiguring of two lives into one, with the well-being of a family taking precedence over any one agenda or goal.
MICHELLE OBAMAThe realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
MICHELLE OBAMAEverything was not lost. This was the message we needed to carry forward. It’s what I truly believed. It wasn’t ideal, but it was our reality—the world as it is. We needed now to be resolute, to keep our feet pointed in the direction of progress.
MICHELLE OBAMAI like the idea of being rigorous about friendship.
MICHELLE OBAMALife was teaching me that progress and change happen slowly. Not in two years, four years, or even a lifetime. We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
MICHELLE OBAMAAmerica, our moment is now, Barack said. Our moment is now.
MICHELLE OBAMAInspiration on its own was shallow; you had to back it up with hard work.
MICHELLE OBAMAfailure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result.
MICHELLE OBAMAIt felt perverse, how the world just carried on. How everyone was still here, except for my Suzanne.
MICHELLE OBAMAThe more popular you became, the more haters you acquired.
MICHELLE OBAMAKids will invest more, when they feel they’re being invested in.
MICHELLE OBAMAEven if we didn’t know the context, we were instructed to remember that context existed. Everyone on earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
MICHELLE OBAMA[Y]ou may live in the world as it is, but you can still work to create the world as it should be.
MICHELLE OBAMAThe lesson being that in life you control what you can.
MICHELLE OBAMAAt fifty-four, I am still in progress, and I hope that I always will be.
MICHELLE OBAMAIt was painful, but time pushed us all forward.
MICHELLE OBAMA