The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONHuman beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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Jazz exemplifies artistic activity that is at once individual and communal, performance that is both repetitive and innovative, each participant sometimes providing background support and sometimes flying free.
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Insight, I believe, refers to the depth of understanding that comes by setting experiences, yours and mine, familiar and exotic, new and old, side by side, learning by letting them speak to one another.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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Human beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food.
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Solutions to problems often depend upon how they’re defined.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.
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