Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONAs we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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Monotony and repetition are characteristic of many parts of life, but these do not become sources of conscious discomfort until novelty and entertainment are built up as positive experiences.
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