We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONFluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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Monotony and repetition are characteristic of many parts of life, but these do not become sources of conscious discomfort until novelty and entertainment are built up as positive experiences.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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The past empowers the present, and the sweeping footsteps leading to this present mark the pathways to the future.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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