The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONSharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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