Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONSharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Jazz exemplifies artistic activity that is at once individual and communal, performance that is both repetitive and innovative, each participant sometimes providing background support and sometimes flying free.
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Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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