The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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Solutions to problems often depend upon how they’re defined.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Monotony and repetition are characteristic of many parts of life, but these do not become sources of conscious discomfort until novelty and entertainment are built up as positive experiences.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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