The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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Insight, I believe, refers to the depth of understanding that comes by setting experiences, yours and mine, familiar and exotic, new and old, side by side, learning by letting them speak to one another.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Monotony and repetition are characteristic of many parts of life, but these do not become sources of conscious discomfort until novelty and entertainment are built up as positive experiences.
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