As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONWhen parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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Insight, I believe, refers to the depth of understanding that comes by setting experiences, yours and mine, familiar and exotic, new and old, side by side, learning by letting them speak to one another.
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Human beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
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