When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONIn many ways, constancy is an illusion.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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Solutions to problems often depend upon how they’re defined.
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Human beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food.
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Jazz exemplifies artistic activity that is at once individual and communal, performance that is both repetitive and innovative, each participant sometimes providing background support and sometimes flying free.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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A disgruntled reflection on my own life as a sort of desperate improvisation in which I was constantly trying to make something coherent from conflicting elements to fit rapidly changing settings.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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The Christian tradition was passed on to me as a great rich mixture, a bouillabaisse of human imagination and wonder brewed from the richness of individual lives.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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What would it be like to have not only color vision but culture vision, the ability to see the multiple worlds of others.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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The past empowers the present, and the sweeping footsteps leading to this present mark the pathways to the future.
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Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.
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